There’s one universal truth in the South: all events, joyful or sad, are accompanied by food. Someone at the airport gave me a Moonpie to welcome me back to the Scenic City, and we’ve been eating ever since. My grandparent’s church had an incredible spread after the funeral with the best chicken salad that I’ve ever eaten (90% of the table had some type of fried food). Since it’s almost Mardi Gras, someone even made a king cake in the shape of my grandfather’s name. The pounds that I escaped gaining over Christmas caught up with me. I’m looking forward to returning to the land of the health-conscious food police.
The funeral went as well as most funerals can go. My 10-year-old godson and cousin, John Edward, served as an alter boy and his sister, Catherine, wrote a poem dedicated to my grandfather that she read during Mass. I don’t know how she managed to read it. We were all crying.
It was really good to see my family. Most of my cousins were there, and it has been years since I’ve seen some of them. We’ve all grown up so much. It’s crazy to think that the oldest one is turning 30 this year! One thing that amazes me is how much we all look alike. Despite different genetics, and the fact that I’m the spitting image of Mom from the South’s side of the family, there’s just something about all of us that shows we’re related. It’s not always present in extended families, but it seems to be on both sides of mine. Maybe it’s a Cajun thing. They are a rather inbred ethnic group.
My great aunt and uncle (my grandmother’s brother and his wife) also drove up from New Orleans. Every time I see them, I’m reminded of what the parentals from the South will be like in about 30 years. They’re a spunky pair who travel all over the world and are just really fun to be around. They brought pictures of their recent adventures, and gave Mom from the South some new destinations for her vacation planning agenda.
Family events are also very interesting because of religious differences. McGuyver Dad’s family is fervently Catholic. Mom and Dad are fervently Protestant, and I’m fervently Calvinist. It’s an interesting situation that can be uncomfortable at times, and we’re faced with the conundrum of being polite and respectful and demanding respect for our beliefs. Politeness generally wins since manners are placed above everything else on Mom’s side of the family, but it has prompted some interesting discussions on the difference between Catholicism and Protestantism. However, seeing that it’s an issue that has caused bloodshed and theological debates for hundreds of years, I doubt we’re going to solve anything.
Last night, instead of vegging out to the Superbowl, we went to Lookout Mountain Pres. and heard Joe Novenson preach. How I miss Joe’s preaching! Chattanooga is so blessed to have him. He spoke on brokenness in your relationship with God. Since that seems to be the 2007 theme, it was really great to hear. We’re 36 days into this new year, and God has shaken the very foundations of my faith. I’m starting to get scared at what He’s going to do next. Every time I think I understand where God is going, something else happens (like losing your grandfather). However, it’s always exciting to grow in the Lord, and I’m appreciating this process. As Joe said, God is breaking the support system that I’ve created and replacing it with His. It’s painful at times, but always, always good.